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Leenie's avatar

Pretty amazing (and affirming!) to read this after spending the past couple of hours writing about a "failure" in my life based on a prompt from Susan Wittig Albert's WRTIING FROM LIFE: Telling Your Soul's Story. When I started writing on this topic yesterday, it was just too heavy so I left it for this morning when I expected to feel fresher and more capable. I used a lot of tarot imagery, particularly versions of The Fool (0) card, as I wrote. It was one of those opportunities to allow myself to feel what I feel, which is always ultimately empowering for me.

I was really writing through 10th house stuff: what authority and success mean, what validates the work I do and the person I am, how I define success (and failure!), the balance between intra- and inter-personal work in the world. I found that grounding/liberating peace by writing to the other side of my sense of failure only to discover it contained my success. When I looked only at external markers as a measure, it was easy to interpret my experience as one of failure. But when I widened the lens of perception and looked at all the relationships, the dynamic vitality of a life lived holistically, I could only see a design of perfection (in the sense of the word as meaning 'lacking nothing/whole') that feels completely successful.

Then I listened to this! Synastry. Perfection.🌿💚🧡

P.S. I've painted the floors in two rooms a lovely honey-rich terra cotta, a color I adore. So grounding and reassuring.

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Maria, thank you for mentioning Freed's book. I've downloaded the sample. I like the term "domain." I've also been thinking about the flatter, more neutral term "area." Thank you for once again enlarging our view beyond the traditional!

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