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Lyns McCracken's avatar

I just got the braiding sweet grass book for Xmas! Will have to check it out. I am learning so much from these breakdowns. I also appreciated you sharing the example with your mom. You got me good a few times. Playing the role of good daughter. Depleting your bandwidth that could be used for something better? Even asking us to think of the times we don’t stand for ourselves. I think of it as by not standing up for myself I’m giving the other person a gift. Even if it’s just a gift of not being a burden. But I’m being selfless to make things better for someone else. I never thought of it as abandoning myself. Or that the years I have left matter too. Woah this one got me real good. Thanks for making me think. 🩶

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Thank you, Maria. This is so helpful and I am glad to be back to my astro studies and explorations after the hectic holiday season. I'm thankful that I journaled and answered those two big questions in depth before reading on. Mars in Cancer (opposing Sun and Jupiter in Cap) couldn't be more spot on as a modus operandi than your description and I'm glad I mined that through my journal explorations before confirming it externally. Home is where the heart(h) is and the essential foundation of all that I do. I feel less ashamed of my need to retreat and steward my solitude, in order to be effective socially (selectively and with careful intention).

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